Slow Sex Secrets by Adam Tokunaga

Author:Adam Tokunaga [Tokunaga, Adam]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 978-1-935654-93-3
Publisher: Kodansha USA
Published: 2012-09-11T00:00:00+00:00

Developing the Erogenous Brain

By now you are at least vaguely aware of the dramatic effect sexual energy (ki) has on sex. In this section, I will go into further detail about the relationship between sexual energy and the female sexual mechanism.

Let’s recall: a woman doesn’t feel pleasure at her erogenous zones, but rather in her brain. Feelings of pleasure don’t exist on the skin. They exist in the brain. In this book, I call this nerve center of pleasure in the brain, where stimulation is recognized as pleasure, the “erogenous brain.” People talk about women being more, or less, sensitive to stimulus. Aside from being an incorrect description of the female sexual mechanism, this way of thinking is the source of many other misconceptions. Experiencing pleasure, not feeling anything, even feeling ticklish—these are all judgments made in the brain. I want you to remember this.

There is no such thing as a woman with a very sensitive clitoris, or nipples that are not sensitive. Whether or not something feels good, and the degree to which it does, depend on whether or not a person’s “erogenous brain” has developed far enough to experience stimulation received by the erogenous zones as pleasurable. All women’s bodies are designed so that their erogenous zones can transmit pleasure during sex once they are fully mature.

So why are some women more sensitive than others? It depends on the extent of their sexual experience, how early they began showing an interest in the opposite sex, when they started masturbating, whether they were surrounded by many members of the opposite sex while growing up, and many other factors that affect the maturity of their erogenous brain. That’s why some women love sex right from their first experience, while others hate it even after having sex with dozens of men.

In other words, sensitivity is a question of how developed a woman’s erogenous brain is. No matter how quiet, shy, or intellectual a woman may ordinarily be, if you succeed in fully developing her erogenous brain, she will turn into an erotic animal in bed.

So how is this done? The most effective method is to provide scrupulous stimulation to each of the numerous erogenous zones scattered all over her body. For example, if she gets pleasure from stimulus to her nipples, that means that the “circuit” between her nipples and her erogenous brain has been opened up. The many erogenous zones all over her body are interconnected. When they are successfully linked up, the entire surface of her body will be a network of erogenous zones. I call this opening up the erogenous routes. The more these routes between the erogenous zones and the erogenous brain are opened up, the greater the functionality of the erogenous brain. In other words, not only will the woman start feeling erogenous pleasure all over her body, but the intensity of the sensation will increase.

“Providing scrupulous stimulation to each of the numerous erogenous zones” may sound like a mind-numbingly time-consuming process, but that’s not the case.

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