ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION: How To Get Rock-Solid Erections - Libido, Erection, Sexual Health & Sexuality (Prostate, ED, Testosterone, Kegel, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Orgasm) by Michael J. Howard
Author:Michael J. Howard [Howard, Michael J.]
Language: eng
Format: mobi
Published: 2014-01-20T00:00:00+00:00
Chapter 5 - Enjoying Sex In Spite of Erectile Dysfunction
Just because you have erectile dysfunction doesn't mean you can't enjoy sex. There are a lot of people out there who enjoy full and happy sex lives despite the fact that they suffer from erectile dysfunction. In fact, there are a lot of people that can go their entire lives suffering from erectile dysfunction and not have any major problems with their sex lives. There are a number of activities you and your partner can do in order to enjoy sex and intimacy together that won't put pressure on you to get erect.
Mutual Masturbation
One of the biggest reasons that you might be suffering from erectile dysfunction is that you are too used to masturbating on your own. The vagina would not be an adequate tool for getting you erect because you just don't find it as pleasurable as the firm grip of your own hand. When you masturbate, you tend to know exactly what to do in order to have a pleasurable experience. It's your body after all. Hence, the orgasms you feel when you masturbate would appear to be a lot more intense than the one's you'd be feeling with your partner.
However, this does not mean that you cannot be intimate with your partner and masturbate at the same time. Masturbation is a great way to enjoy each other's bodies. Usually when you masturbate you probably think of someone, a fantasy or something similar. You might watch porn. By masturbating with your partner you are going to be able to enjoy each other's bodies while masturbating. Your partner might just prefer this if she is a woman. Just like woman don't quite know how men like to be touched, men don't know how women like it either. By masturbating in front of each other you can achieve intimacy without having to have intercourse.
You can also use mutual masturbation as a way to get erect before having sex. Try progressing to this level if you want to eventually be able to have penetrative sex with your partner. It is highly recommended that you at least try to penetrate your partner once you are erect. Another way you can use mutual masturbation to progress to sex is by masturbating your partner with your own fingers. Have her guide your movements, telling you where to go and what to do. By doing this, you are going to discover her body and where her pleasure lies. It is going to add a significant amount of intimacy to your relationship because you are going to be the one giving her pleasure.
Additionally, you can create a sexual connection by having your partner help you masturbate. You can guide her hands yourself, as this will teach her how to properly give you pleasure. It will at least be a step above simply looking at and touching each other while masturbating, and is an important stepping stone to getting over your erectile dysfunction. You and your partner can also make the experience more erotic by rubbing lube or oil on each other.
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