Sex for Grownups: Dr. Dorree Reveals the Truths, Lies, and Must-Tries for Great Sex After 50 by Dorree Lynn

Author:Dorree Lynn [Lynn, Dorree]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi
Publisher: Health Communications Inc - A
Published: 2010-03-31T22:00:00+00:00

SIX

OH, NO! WHERE DID MY LOVER GO? Great Sex in a Long-Term Relationship

Anal Sex

QUESTION: My partner has been trying for months to convince me to have anal sex with him, which he says I am going to love. I’ve never tried it before and I am afraid it might hurt. What should I do?

—MAGGIE ROSE, 59

If you don’t want to try something, you certainly don’t have to. On the other hand, it can be useful in life to have an open mind and at least consider something new. Some people like to be aroused or have orgasms from anal play, or from penile and vaginal play plus anal stimulation, with or without penetration. It’s all good as long as you like it, your partner likes it, and no one gets hurts.

If you want to give this a try, you can start with gentle touching of the anus, perhaps with a neutral lubricant designed for this purpose. If you enjoy this and want to experiment further, you can try slowly inserting a finger tip (yours or his, with the nail well-trimmed) into the anus. A relaxed anus is capable of expanding and accepting a finger, dildo, or penis. Most people who engage in anal sex thoroughly enjoy it. Anything that hurts or feels uncomfortable can and should be immediately curtailed.

If this is something you’d like to try, here are some tips for first-timers.

• Discuss it ahead of time and agree on what you will and won’t do. This is supposed to be pleasurable.

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