Empath to Mystic by Aaran Solh

Author:Aaran Solh
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: spiritual, meditation, confidence, intuition, chakra, third eye, codependence, esteem, empath, being yourself
Publisher: Aaran Solh

BEING IN RELATIONSHIP WITH WHAT YOU WANT

When you see something you want, the tendency is to run and cling to it. When you recall a feeling you want to have (or imagine what a certain feeling might be like), your mind runs to it and attempts to cling to it too. But what happens when you chase after your desire? At some point in the chase, you hit a wall. You can also think of it as hitting a store window, where what you want is just beyond the glass. You end up with your nose pressed against the glass and a feeling of yearning or longing. The experience is that what you want to attain is just beyond reach.

When you run towards your desire, you hit a glass wall. You find that you can’t immediately change who and how you are right now simply by desiring to be somewhere or something else. It’s a mistake we all make. So what’s the secret? The secret to getting the feeling you want is to be receptive and in relationship with what you want, instead of the idea that you lack it and have to perform a certain way in order to have it.

Instead of longing, be still, enter an in-between moment, and invite what you want to you, and then slowly develop a relationship with how it feels. If you want love, you need to develop a relationship with the feeling of love. You need to stop making assumptions that because you can imagine what love is, that you have any idea about what it actually is. Love isn’t paradise. You need to take love out on a first date. Wine it and dine it. Get to know it. Be open minded to what getting to know it will mean to you and how it will change you, as any experience and relationship inevitably does.

If you see somebody you find attractive laying on the beach you can’t go over to them and assume they will match up with your expectations. Though it’s the approach most people unconsciously take. They try and ‘get what they want’ from the other person. This is the approach - you go up to that gorgeous person laying half naked on the beach and say, ‘So… my ideal partner does the dishes every day, likes to dance, and makes me feel really good about myself. How about it?’

Needless to say, it’s an approach that doesn’t work very well. So instead, if you see somebody you are attracted to, you might go over with an open mind and no preconceptions. Be willing to receive who they actually are with genuine curiosity rather than expecting them to provide you with what you desire. Be accommodating, flexible, and humble, and be willing to upgrade yourself according to what you learn from them, and the relationship itself.

The principle is the same with all the feelings, objects, and attainments you desire. You must really get to know what you want and be willing to learn how it’s going to change you when it comes.

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