Swipe - The Game has Changed by Michael Jarosky

Author:Michael Jarosky
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Michael Jarosky

Age:

33

Occupation:

Health & Wellness

Swiping Age Range:

30 – 42

Erica and I met on Tinder. It was a breakfast date on a Sunday – she wasn’t feeling well. We ate, we chatted, and we went for a walk. It was polite fun. I don’t think the spark was there for either of us, but Erica is a cool girl. She’s got this unique mix where sexy meets girl next door. We catch up once in a while, and we shoot the shit about dating and sex via Facebook as friends.

Why did you start swiping? Last year, my housemate and I were out with a friend, and we had never heard of Tinder. We all got blind drunk and downloaded it while a band was playing. We thought it was a hook up site, and we were curious what was going on. I ended up sleeping with the guy who told us to download it, and I woke up to a whole bunch of messages from the night’s swipes.

I was new to the city. I had only been here three or four months, and it seemed like a good way to see the city and meet new people.

What are you seeking? I don’t like anything that’s too obvious about sex, and I don’t like anything that’s too desperate about a relationship. I’m not ‘seeking’. I use the app for banter. I enjoy dating and meeting new people – drinks and laughs in person. Sometimes it leads to sex (not as often as you think), sometimes more dates. I do find that men are a bit too needy while app dating. One guy called me 16 times after the date finished at 5:30pm – right up until midnight.

Describe your swiping experience? I’ve got three different versions. The first was because my photos were telling guys I looked ‘wholesome’. I found men quite needy during that period, and I had 15 dates in total. No relationship ensued – just a ton of dates. The second time, the men were the neediest guys I’ve ever met in my life. I lasted a week. The last time, I’ve been on for two weeks, and I’ve enjoyed it more. It’s more relaxed. I’ve had to add in my profile ‘don’t be serious’. I wish I knew why ‘needy’ comes my way – maybe it’s my pics, and my ‘wholesome’ girl next door look.

Longest swipe relationship: Three dates. On the third date, we slept together. Three days later, he hadn’t messaged, so I wiped him completely. Apparently he dropped his phone while kayaking. Nice try. So, I didn’t stick around and wait. He’s a douchebag, and he’s still trying to sleep with me.

Which profiles are attractive to you? I was trying to work this out the other day. And I can’t figure out why I do swipe right, and why for some I don’t. Somebody that has a nice smile and a nice personality – that’s what I’m looking for. A dog helps! It’s a positive vibe – relaxed, comfortable, and not overweight.

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