Counseling Toward Solutions by Linda Metcalf;

Author:Linda Metcalf; [Metcalf, Linda]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9781000379228
Publisher: Taylor & Francis (Unlimited)
Published: 2021-04-15T00:00:00+00:00

Step 2: Design the Preferred Future

LM: You know, you have tried so many things. In fact, I rarely see a teacher as committed to her students as you. And now you are focused on changing a situation. If you had your way, what would you like to see happen between you and this student?

TEACHER: Respect. I want him to respect me.

LM: What will that look like when it happens?

TEACHER: I suppose that he will listen to me and not respond negatively anymore.

Step 3: Exceptions

LM: That sounds very important to you. Tell me, in the past, when people hurt your feelings, such as friends, relatives or other staff members, what did you do to get them to listen to you?

TEACHER: I am actually pretty straightforward. I tell them that they hurt my feelings.

LM: How do you do that?

TEACHER: I get fairly quiet and serious and then just tell them. Sometimes it’s embarrassing, so I do it in private.

So, we ended the conversation like this:

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