Resisting Intuition by Lacee Daniels

Author:Lacee Daniels [Daniels, Lacee]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Lacee Daniels
Published: 2024-02-23T00:00:00+00:00

Chapter 14

Alex

There I was, about to embark on setting up my first online dating profile on Bumble. The idea, which had always seemed like a distant, almost abstract concept, was now a reality right at my fingertips.

The notion of diving into the world of online dating had never really crossed my mind before. It was a realm I had observed from afar, something that seemed more suited to others, not a NATO officer whose life was often shrouded in formality and discretion. Yet here I was, about to take a plunge into this new world, driven by a mix of bashfulness and an undeniable sense of curiosity.

There was something both exciting and intimidating about this step. The thought of presenting myself on such a platform, where first impressions are distilled into a few pictures and words on a screen, was an unfamiliar exercise. It felt like standing on the edge of a diving board, looking into the unknown waters below. The act of creating a dating profile, simple as it might seem, represented a significant departure from my usual way of connecting with the world.

This wasn’t just about finding companionship; it was also about embracing a modern approach to relationships, one that seemed to be the norm in a world increasingly driven by digital interactions. The decision to join Bumble marked a foray into a space where personal connections were made in a way that was wholly new to me — less organic, perhaps, but intriguing in its possibilities. It was a curious blend of apprehension and anticipation, a step into a space where the personal and the digital intersected in ways I had yet to fully understand or experience.

Embarking on the task of setting up my profile, I recognized the importance of the images I would choose to represent myself. In the digital world of dating, photographs often speak louder than words, serving as visual narratives of one’s life. I scrolled through the gallery on my phone, seeking images that would accurately portray who I am beyond my professional identity. The majority of my photos were linked to my work or group pictures with colleagues and friends, showcasing a formal and collective aspect of my life. But for this endeavor, I needed something more personal, more reflective of my individuality.

I sought photos that would offer a glimpse into my world outside the confines of my uniform and official duties. The first picture I selected was from a recent hiking adventure, a candid shot capturing me mid-stride, surrounded by lush greenery and rugged terrain. It was an image that spoke of my love for nature, my penchant for exploring the wilderness, and my appreciation for the serenity it offered. This photo was a side of me that found solace and rejuvenation in the embrace of the outdoors, a facet I hoped would resonate with others who shared similar interests.

The second photo was a stark contrast to the first — a moment captured in a quaint café, with me lost in the pages of a book.

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