How To Be A Better Boyfriend: The Relationship Manual For Becoming Mr. Right And Making A Woman Happy by Bruce Bryans

Author:Bruce Bryans [Bryans, Bruce]
Language: eng
Format: azw3
Published: 2014-06-29T16:00:00+00:00

CHAPTER 4:

Understanding Her Importance To Your Well-Being

Why She Nags You…and How to Deal With It

I’ll be honest with you, there may be a whole host of reasons why a woman may decide to nag and harass you for whatever reason.

I believe that God decided to play a cruel joke on men by creating us with the inability to naturally deal with female nagging. We’re helpless in many ways to it, and for good reason.

Why?

Well, some men sadly only respond to the continuous nagging and dissatisfaction of a woman. And women know this, so they use it to get what they want.

A woman may nag you because she’s not being appreciated for who she is or what she does for you. She may nag and make your life a bit more difficult simply because of emotional changes in her body, such as a pregnancy or her menstrual cycle. Heck, she may decide to nag you out of pure spite. But whatever it is, it is usually a sign of unhappiness or lack of fulfillment in some particular area.

For instance, you may just be slacking off in your duties in some way, which will of course compel her to nag you if she sees that you’re not taking the initiative of getting something done or if you’re not being a man of your word.

If this is the case...get it done. Don’t try to side step the issue.

Use the ideas I set out in an earlier chapter on having a stress-free relationship in order to avoid extensive amounts of conflict.

Just be a man of your word and do what it is you said you would do. This will display to her your level of integrity, and she’ll grow to respect your word more and more.

If there’s something that she wants or needs from you, get her to communicate with you and see to it that she understands that you understand how she feels.

And while it is important that you stand your ground and remain poised even as she nags, you must remember that her needs are important as well. You must be firm enough to make an intelligent decision, but flexible enough to accommodate her.

Always look for the win-win situation.

The Non-Suitable Helper Syndrome

On the other hand, I believe that a woman may nag you because she wants to help you succeed at something. But if you’re not helping yourself she will start malfunctioning because she’s not fulfilling her role as a suitable helper.

If she’s with a man that she wants to assist in the maximizing of his potential but he’s not interested in doing so, she’ll be unhappy, which might manifest itself in nagging.

And if she’s with a man who is underutilizing his strengths, her strengths, or both, she will remain unhappy, unfulfilled, and unrelenting unless he takes some bold action in a positive direction.

And yes my friend, the ONLY way to deal with it is to take some form of bold action in a positive direction.

This presupposes of course, that she’s nagging you because she really does love you and she wants to see you succeed of course.

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